The Flat Cap: The Costume of Spirituality in Modern Wellness

The Flat Cap: The Costume of Spirituality in Modern Wellness In the north of England, the flat cap wasn’t originally fashion. It was practical. It kept rain off men working long days outdoors. Men grafting in factories, fields and shipyards. Men hunting because they needed food on the table, not because it was a leisurely…

What Are We Really Selling?

What Are We Really Selling? A coffee shop sells coffee. Or does it? Of course, there is coffee involved but  people also buy a pause between meetings. A familiar face behind the counter. A place to sit alone without feeling lonely, a reason to leave the house. The beauty industry sells products and treatments. Yet…

Super Communicators

In Supercommunicators, Charles Duhigg argues that many conversations happen on different levels. Sometimes we’re having a practical conversation, trying to exchange information or solve a problem. Sometimes it’s emotional, where the real need is to feel heard, understood or supported. Other times it’s social, exploring identity, values or belonging. Communication often falters when people are…

Do You Like That?

A hairdresser explained why highlights don’t cost £60 anymore. Not because of the cost of living. Not because salons have suddenly become more expensive to run but because no one is asking just for highlights anymore. They’re asking for something that sounds simple – but isn’t. Effortless colour Soft blends. Something that grows out naturally.…

Namaste – And Put The Blocks Away

What if your discipline is just your anxiety in a nicer outfit? One of the stranger things I’ve noticed in yoga is how often tidiness becomes a moral virtue. Teachers jokingly shame students who don’t put props away. Mats must line up perfectly. Blocks must be stacked just so. Somewhere along the way someone quotes,…